My husband and I sat across from each other last week, talking about his mother’s passing. And in the middle of our conversation, we made a decision that felt almost counterintuitive: we decided to be careful about who we told.

Not because we wanted to hide. Not because we didn’t need support.

But because we’d learned something that grief has a way of teaching you—people often respond out of their own unresolved pain.

The Weight of Other People’s Wounds

You know the feeling. You share something tender, something raw, and instead of being held in your grief, you suddenly find yourself managing someone else’s emotions. Their story crashes into yours. Their unhealed places leak into the space where you needed gentleness.

It’s not malicious. It’s human. We all do it.

But here’s what stopped me in my tracks: in that moment of deciding who was safe to tell, I was reminded—again—of who God is.

The One Who Meets You Fully

God is the only one who responds to you completely, wholly, without mixing His response with His own wounds.

Because He has none.

He doesn’t bring His baggage to your breakdown. He doesn’t accidentally make your loss about His triggers. He doesn’t meet your grief with a story that redirects attention away from your pain.

He just… holds you.

Fully present. Fully capable. Fully safe.

From Feeling to Worship

And this is why remembering matters.

When you’re sitting in the hard, holy spaces of life—when you’re grieving or waiting or wondering if you’ll make it through—gratitude can feel empty. Like a platitude you’re supposed to perform.

But gratitude that remembers who God is? That’s different.

That’s when you trace your blessings back:

• Back to His faithfulness when everyone else forgot
• Back to His compassion when you needed someone who wouldn’t flinch
• Back to His protection in moments you didn’t even know you were vulnerable
• Back to His presence when the room was empty but you weren’t alone

When you connect the blessing to the Blesser, something shifts. Emotion becomes worship.

Your Turn: Remember This Week

This week, I want you to try something:

Choose one blessing—just one—and name the part of God’s character it connects to.

Maybe it’s a door that opened, and you trace it back to His provision.
Maybe it’s a conversation that went better than expected, and you see His grace.
Maybe it’s just that you woke up this morning, and you recognize His mercy.

Then speak it out loud. Write it down. Text it to a friend. Pray it back to Him.

Because gratitude is good.

But gratitude that remembers God? That transforms you.

He Holds Every Piece

While you wait—for healing, for answers, for breakthrough, for the next step—you’re not waiting alone.

He holds every piece of your heart. The broken parts. The hopeful parts. The parts you’re not sure what to do with yet.

And He doesn’t bring His wounds to the table.

He brings His wholeness. And He offers it to you.

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This is what we do at While You Wait Ministries—we create space to remember, to wait well, and to let our gratitude become worship. If this message spoke to you, we’d love to connect with you.

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